7 positive impacts of marriage that is often forgotten

In modern times, many people do not understand the wisdom and wisdom of marriage so that they do not appreciate, play, or even ignore marriage institutions. In marriage there are so many wisdom and wisdom that they have a positive impact on individuals, families, and society in general.

Sayyid Muhammad Amin bin Aydrus bin Abdillah bin Umar bin Shaykh Abi Bakri bin Salim, in his book Vurse as-hawaah thank you to the weather of al-Hamlu for al-Senang, Mentioning seven faidahs from marriage, including:

To increase the Prophet Muhammad

Based on the words of the Prophet Muhammad:

You are touched, because I am the doubling of countries on the day of resurrection

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“Married you and many offspring, because I will be proud of your mom in front of others on the day of assessment.”

The Prophet Muhammad said that the number of Muslims was something he was proud of before other people on the Day of Judgment. So this hadith is often in the fieldan as a motivation to makeAGun family that is sakinah and develops in a healthy and productive manner in society.

Married can make people rich

Marriage is considered a blessing and expanding the source of sustenance for couples. Therefore, marriage is often seen as a big step that opens the door for sustenance. One of the verses called the Word of God in Surah An-Nur Verse 32:

And you are one of you and the good of your servant and your pain ۚ If they are poverty, they will be enriched by God, and for good

“And let the people between you, and those who are worthy of the servants of your men and slaves. If they are poor, God will take them to His grace.

Shaykh Prof. Dr. Wahbah Az-Zuhaili Di Tafsir al-WajizInterpreting this verse with “… If men and women in the world, then God will give them wealth from their glory and priority. Anyone who is married, then God will make him rich in wealth and wealth.”

Able to maintain appetite from forbidden things

Because the messenger of God (may peace on it) has been rejected:

O young man, anyone who can be ignored, let him get married, because he closed his eyes to vision, and I had been fortified because of strength, and anyone who did not see it. This is for him

“O young people, whoever is able (bearing the burden of marriage), then you should get married. Because marriage is more bowing and maintaining the genitals. And who has not been able, then you should fast, because fasting can be a control of lust.” (Muslim HR).

So actually marriage is a shar’i solution to maintain honor and avoid adultery. And Islam has provided a solution for those who have not been able to get married, namely fasting.

Benefits of offspring

O young man, anyone who can be ignored, let him get married, because he closed his eyes to vision, and I had been fortified because of strength, and anyone who did not see it. This is for him

Get offspring (sholeh and or shohehah) who will pray for their parents.

If someone dies, his work is disturbed except from three, except from the current charity, or knowledge that benefits him, or a good son

“When Adam’s son died, his actions were cut off except for three: fingers, useful knowledge, and Saleh’s son who prayed for that.“ (At-tirmidzi).

This shows that marriage creates a world and the hereafter. A child who grows in a loving family and religious principles may be a pious person who prayed for his parents even after they died.

Mediation KElech who died

Getting the interruption of his son who died when he was young. As the Prophet said:

There are no Muslims, the three children died for them, who did not reach traffic jams, unless God entered them in heaven, thanks to their grace to them.

“There is no husband and wife of Muslims whose three children died before baligh, unless God will put them (both parents) into heaven because of His grace to the children.” (HR Ahmad).

Small people who die in the nature of Islam are the cause of their parents entering heaven, if they are patient and pleasure for God’s destiny. In fact, in the hadith there are friends who ask, like Abu Dzar “What if only two of them are the messenger of God” The Prophet answered “Even two” Then Ubay Ibn Ka’ab also asked “What if only one messenger of God” The Prophet answered “Even one” Then the Prophet continued “This is only Shaykh because of the patience of disaster.”

Lucky person

Excluding the criteria of bad people. Like there is a hadith stating:

Your crime is your single

“As bad as people among you are bachelors, and as bad as the dead people among you are bachelors.”

However, of course not all people who are not married automatically are despicable – can be because there is no match, economic problems, or other syar’i reasons. Keep in mind that this expression is narrated in the form of ATSAR (words of some friends or tabi’in), and not all scholars agree that this is the Word of the Prophet ﷺ directly (marfu ‘).

Get pleasure

Channeling something dangerous if held, and get a delicious fun with their partner. Marriage is not only considered a social bond or tradition, but also as a shar’i solution to human biological nature. The impulse of lust or sexual desire is part of human natural instincts. If it is not channeled through a halal path, these desires have the potential to have a negative impact both spiritually, psychologically, and socially.

With marriage, sexual relations are not only valid, but also to be used as worship and means to maintain honor. Rasulullah (may peace on it) said:

In some of you, Charity says: What comes to one of us, his lust, O God’s messenger, and He has a gift.

“And in the genitals, one of you has a charity.” Friends ask, “O messenger of God, do we get a gift from what we do to meet our orgasm?” He answered, “Isn’t it if he put it in an illegal place, then he is a sin? So if he puts it in a legitimate place, then he gets a gift.” (HR. Bukhari and Muslim)

So in Islam, marriage is a legitimate way to maintain nature. In addition, gaining blessings in life, and produces a pious generation. After understanding the faidah, Muslims must view marriage as an important part of a life that is complete, responsible, and valued in the hereafter. Marriage is not only a moral and social solution but also a form of worship that is worth a reward.

This paper has no intention to offend or refute reality. Because many of the Faidah, one of which makes it rich, it is not in accordance with the reality if without endeavors work according to Islamic law, and so on. So these faidahs are written only to be an insight enhancer that the writer quotes from the book VURSE AS-SAADAH. Hope it is useful.

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Author: Abil Qasim

Editor: Muh. Sutan